Tuesday, January 22, 2013

Night Vision

If flying at sunset is like looking at photos of the Caribbean (at some cellular level you feel you are there), flying at night is therapeutic, like time slowing. Calm is inevitable. 
I see my own reflection in the window, powered by the glow of my laptop and the light above the man in the aisle seat reading my discarded paper. Cities seen through the clouds below your wings; orange lights concentrated around what must be a city center and all around people’s lives are happening.  It is like waving to someone going by - temporary but very present. Some cities resemble a spider web, highways and byways seen in a circular layout. Others resemble no pattern at all and are sporadic and disconnected in their design. Who knows what city this might be below me.

The landscape always has lights. Even in the darker places there are lights. The towns connect, one to the next, and the next after that. Our moments, much like our towns, connect like a lighted trail across all our lives.  It never quite goes completely dark across this route. We must appreciate the dim as much as the bright, as being part of that path.

Friday, January 11, 2013

Mom who works

I met another 'mom' traveler this trip – we’re a society of few with children under or around the age of 10; an elite club of the non-elite type.  We can compare sitter snafoos, pickup disasters, and scheduling mishaps (which required our attention in the middle of a meeting or during a flight connection in line on the jet bridge), as if they happened yesterday. Then there are the stories of the delayed departure that caused us to miss bedtime tuck in rituals, or the quiet sad voice message from our little person asking when we will be home, and of course our ever present juggle to maximize our minimal days away and in the skies. 
As the conversation ended I felt even more grateful for my flexible schedule and beautiful balance to be not a working mom, but a mom who works.  Grateful that I am present enough to conduct a professional conference call with others in any city AND still talk shop about the carpool craziness of yesterday with fellow moms from school.